Cookie Jar

When I was pregnant with my first I had this vision of Suzy homemaker! I didn't sew, couldn't cook, but it didn't matter I pictured my calling as one in an apron cooking and cleaning with a smile and having a hot meal ready when husband came home! Ha ha I laugh now at that...one thing I have accomplished is finally getting a cookie jar! I can thank my mom for that. She gave me her flour jar that she wasn't using and it is perfect. I just got it yesterday so today before the girls get home Blaise and I have been busy making cookies to fill it. A cookie jar with four kids is a must have in my mind. I may not be the ultimate Suzy homemaker but I am sure trying.

The Visit

I had wanted to go buy some make up today... It is something I desperately needed to do. Something was telling me I needed to go see my grandma. I was happy to make the last minute plans with my parents and we went together. Once again I have realized everything happens for a reason. Sometimes I find myself complaining about petty things.... Dirty dishes, messy floors, someone leaving a light on.. Oh poor me! I get tired and frustrated and downright grumpy... Today my grandmother taught me a life lesson. Here I thought I was doing the good deed of visiting her when she ended up teaching me a thing or two!
My grandmother had a fall a few weeks ago and I was shocked at how swollen her hand was and how painful it appeared and yet not a whine or complaint...she complimented my mother on her outfit and kept doting on the boys. I looked around her place and realized she did not have fancy art work up but a mish mash of framed pictures of her family. She also pulled out coloring pages that my kids had mailed her to display them so as not to hurt their feelings. Funny, I thought I was going to perform this monumental act of visiting her and somehow she taught me more today than I expected. When we left my mom said she always stops at end of hallway and waves goodbye to her, we all stopped and waved and I looked down and saw a very content woman happy to have had her family visit.

Mall Rats

A stop at the Mall before checking in to hotel! Free Pretzel day, shopping and a turn in the hurricane! Off to swim, a movie and sleep!

Weather Permitting

I kept telling the girls they may not make it ALL the way to Petoskey. There were weather reports of huge snowfall that Grandma informed us of. Tony made the call last night that they would change plans. I assumed it was going to be fine. Every kid loves a hotel with movie theater, pool, and bowling alley! Well I was wrong...Julia was devastated. She had hopes of saying her prayers with grandma, going to church with them and trying some Molasses cookies. I reminded her it was a daddy daughter weekend but she reminded me she sees dad every night but misses grandma and grandpa a lot. I know once they get to the hotel she will have fun but last night her little spirit was crushed by the weather.

Daddy Daughter weekend

Normally this time of year the girls go to a daddy daughter dance with Tony. They get all dolled up and have a night on the town...this year they wanted to change it up a bit and go away for the weekend. They both were insistent that they go together to Grandma's house. Tony was ecstatic at idea of road trip and so weather permitting they are heading north to sled, shop, and visit!
I have plans of my own with the boys. Blaise has talked me into going out to eat and he also wants to go shopping! For him it means legos or matchbox cars! I also heard a mention of watching a movie together and eating popcorn! Before all the fun everyone was in badly need of a haircut and then we pack and prepare..

Bagel Boy

One of the great things about connecting with other mommies with children of the same age is the swapping of ideas. My sister in law lives in Chicago and has a little guy one month older than Benedict. Recently we have been chatting about food options for our babies as their palettes mature! I had recently given Benedict a frozen whole wheat organic bagel to teethe upon as his third tooth is causing him grief...she gave me the great idea of waffles as well and I have that on my list to get. I mentioned to her avocado and her guy, ohh he so cutely gobbled it up! Last night we gave the baby homemade squash, mashed pears and mashed whole wheat pasta...he liked it all! It is always nice to swap ideas with mommies and I appreciate all the advice. She sent me an adorable picture of Steven gobbling up black beans...as a vegan you know that was my favorite picture! I am going to try that next week with Benedict!
Although as I forewarned her...
"beans beans the musical fruit..."
Sorry I had to add that one!

Hangman

Math Club was today and the kids did the neatest thing compliments of the mother whose home we were at! She set up two different boards and the kids used math terms and played hang man. Once they guessed the correct term they were presented with a definition and bonus challenge problem. Both teams had fun but I think I appreciated watching them work together. I noticed areas of weakness that I can supplement at home and I noticed that math was fun today! I actually heard Julia laugh during math! Math club is at our house next week and I feel challenged now to make it fun and stimulating!

Handwritten with Love

Benedict's Godmother is a couponer like myself. She used to live in Dearborn and her neighbor was an elderly lady that cared for her daughter with Down Syndrome. One of the things her daughter could do was cut coupons out of all the daily papers. She did it with joy and purpose. All of these coupons have benefited many of us moms. Recently my friend told me that the two ladies were feeling lonely and would love a note from the kids. Last week we sat down painted pictures and wrote letters to them. The kids expected nothing in return and I didn't even know if we would hear from them. Imagine our surprise when she sent them a handwritten note with stickers and dollars for all three kids! They were humbled by the gesture and felt touched that someone who was experiencing loneliness would reach out and make them feel good. The girls are happy to keep up a pen pal with this dear old woman and her daughter. They expect nothing in return except a new friendship. My faith in human kindness is once again restored!

Leap Day

Today is a leap day! This day only happens like once every four years?!?
Well the kids were invited to a leap year party. I am wondering what type of games one does on leap day? Leap frog maybe?!?
They were also instructed to dress backwards, crazy or mismatched. This should be very interesting I suspect. Benedict decided to wear his leap frog pjs today in honor of this special odd day! How does one salute another today? Happy Leap
Leaping Lizards!
Leaps to You!
Ladies leapin'
Well I'm not sure but have a great day!

Mustard Seed

Here is my seed for the day:
When you know you are doing the will of God, that alone is enough to sustain your happiness. When you don't have that all possessions in the world cannot sustain happiness in the depths of your heart. -mustard seed

Vote

This morning we have a FULL day ahead! I am going to go vote and get over to store for supplies. We have a full day of school as well. Tony and I are surprising the girls with an upcoming dad and daughters trip this weekend so I also have to wash and pack them up. Normally I am a lunatic running around trying to get it all done but I am really attempting to divide and conquer what is important. This morning voting is top priority for me.

Oh Spring Where are You?

This happens to me every year! In an effort to stay on top of life I start my spring cleaning right after Groundhogs Day... Old Woody said Spring was coming. I put the flannels and cords away I break out the Spring 3/4 length tops and gym shoes and I start planning our Easter attire and plans...I can't help it this is who I am...a planner an organizer by nature. Every year I do this and Old Man winter bellows out not so fast lady I call the shots!
My cousin in California keeps a photography blog and recently she posted the most beautiful shots of Spring buds, flowers call it what you like but it was a teaser to us Michiganders! I don't know how to link her site but it is awphotographyblog.com and if you are experiencing seasonal affective disorder like myself check out her pictures for a sample of California life. It will answer my question as to where Spring is...
Even the kids have spring fever and are counting the weeks to Spring vacation!

From Safari to Mexico

Family time today consists of a trip to Safari Playground which is an indoor play area and then to a Mexican restaurant by Tony's office. His customer has been asking him to bring the family in to Puerto Vilareuta for tacos and chips! You don't need to invite Tony twice where food is concerned. I heard a mention of fried ice cream as well. Normally during Lent we don't do a lot of eating out and sweets but today is a feast day and it is acceptable for a little celebratory fun! I hope your Sunday is going well! Ole'

Date Night

Last night we decided to go to Saturday night mass and when we came home Tony wanted to watch a movie. The boys went right to bed as it was bedtime. The girls had a slumber party in the basement and Tony and I watched a movie on Netflix. It was called The Way and starred Martin Sheen and Emilio Estevez. It was thought provoking and moving. The summary is this: a son goes on a pilgrimage and is killed in France. His father goes to collect his remains and along the way continues the sons pilgrimage. Along the way he meets a Dutchman that is in a bad marriage, a woman suffering from effects of an abortion, and a writer that can not write. All four go on the pilgrimage to discover the one true healer is God who wipes away all pain. It is provoking and moving. Although we are not trekking 900 km to Spain on a pilgrimage we are all walking our own journey and it really lit my fire to continue on my course regardless of the obstacles.

Oldie but Goody

I love vintage toys! I am not one into the noise, batteries, bells and whistles!
When I discovered the old toys that I used to play with when I was little were making a go around again I was ecstatic! My favorite toy was a record player that had colored records (plastic) and it was red and yellow and you could wind it up and it played row row your boat...I recall playing with it up north at my grandma's house.